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How I Don't Let My Past Define Me

I remember those days

Back in the days, I remember those days things I couldn't pay for on my own, I had to rely on others to help me.  My life changed drastically for the better because I learn from all my mistake. Growing up life was not that easy for me I always stay working to pay my bills.

Sometimes we work but the money does not seem enough to take care of loved ones and pay the bills. I will work from paycheck to paycheck to make ends meet. Sometimes I have to do two jobs just to survive and there are times the two jobs ain't enough.

I know there are other people out there that can relate to this article, especially the ones that care deeply for their family. Life is a struggle we all know that nothing comes easy we just have to put our best foot forward. im the type of person that always think outside the box to better my life. Click Here

I remember those days when I couldn't afford to pay my car payment,  the financing company repossess my car for nonpayment. I try to get it back a few times, I was at a point where I couldn't afford it anymore so I have to give up on it. It's so ironic for all the years im making payment on time, just when im closed to payoff then that's when troubles occur.

Car payment was not the only thing I was struggling to pay, I couldn't pay my rent and my car insurance. Many of times the insurance company cancels my policy on my car for non-payment. I was afraid to drive my car on the road I didn't want to get pull over by the police.

My rent

There is always one problem after the other, my rent was a big issue as well. I was falling behind on my rent, I lost my job and I owe the landlord three months of back rent. When are this struggles going to end for me, it's like a never-ending dilemma going on. I know soon I will have to change the coast of my life,  otherwise, it's not going to be looking too bright for me.

It was when I hit the lowest point in my life, I lost everything and almost become homeless. Thank God to some good friends, that help me out. I stayed with them for about 6 months until I could finally stand back up on my two feet.  I hit rock bottom, it was my first experience I ever been through. Click Here

An experience I will never wish upon my worse enemies, it makes you feel like a fish out of water. I remember calling the state I was living, telling them that in a few weeks I will be homeless with my daughter. It was a very sad moment in my life one that makes me cry very hard. My daughter saw me crying and she started crying as well, she knows that it been pretty rough on us.
"Not because you hit rock bottom, doesnt mean you have to stay there"
My favorite quote that helps me to bounce right back up and claim everything that was taken away from me. I claim back my life and all my assets that I work hard for.  I speak life into existence, rock bottom is not for me it was very uncomfortable for me. Click Here

Rock bottom is a beautiful start

I know that I can do better for me and my family, there are times you have to wake up from your comfort zone. For you to start thinking outside the box to find a solution to improve yourself. Maybe if I didn't hit rock bottom I wouldn't be where I am now.

I grow through what I go through, I learn from all my struggling experience and apply it to my life. Now when I heard people talking to me over the phone. Telling me that they are having a hard time paying their bills, I can definitely a relation. I was that person a few years ago, but no more im stand solidly with my feet planted firmly in the ground.

My accomplishment

No more rock bottom for me, im more focus and goal oriented, my history doesn't define my destiny. Now when I look back at those days when I couldn't pay my bills. Im happy to say that I accomplish a lot over the past years. I never late on my car payment, I have a few months to pay off my car then its official mines. Click Here

I have moved twice since rock bottom, where im at now I love it so much, I get to have my own master bedroom with bathroom. Something I never had before I can say life is much better and easier for me lately.  I find constructive things to do with my time, I do enjoy writing a story about my life, I want to share with others to uplift them not to give up.

I found my North

I'm happy to say im at peace with myself, I found my true purpose of what im here for. It's like a burden lift off my back, I feel lighter and stress-free, Give me more room to focus on the things that matter more to me and pursue my dreams.

My journey was not easy but it didn't kill me im still alive, im going to make the rest of my life the best time of my life. If anyone asked me when was the happiest time of my life, I would say now cause I get the opportunity to enjoy doing what I do best.

Im, not a professional writer but can tell their story better than the person that goes through it. The beauty of my life and my writing. I don't have to think of content to put into my writing, t just comes naturally like it,  just happen.
From rock bottom to CEO, Im proud to say that im the CEO of my company MyTyme LLC you can learn more Click Here

Final advice to anyone out there, please don't give up keep on trying you will get there someday. You are strong don't quit if did quit I wouldn't be where I am today. I hope you all find some valuable information from this content that you can apply and share with others.

Past and Future

"The past is where you learned the lesson, The future is where you apply the lesson"
"Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future,
concentrate the mind on the present moment"
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Author: Marlene Gainey


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